Sunday, January 29, 2012

When we struggle.

This past year has been a tough one for me. I’ll admit it.

Most of the hard things that have happened to me would probably seem like good things to other people.

My daughter got married. My son is studying abroad.

I know these are wonderful events, and I am truly grateful for them. But it was still hard to see my kids leave home and begin new lives.

Some of the hard things that have happened have just been bad.

I’ve been worried about losing my job. I was told that the position would be eliminated. It was off and on again several times. There have been some really horrible days when I wondered if I would be able to provide for my family much longer.

Mixed in with all this, my house was severely damaged in a wind storm in December. We’ve been struggling with our Insurance provided to agree upon proper repairs.

So there have been great moments of happiness, and horrible moments of worry and despair.

I’ve been amazed each time I’ve been lifted from my despair by someone I least expected to be thinking of me. Something as simple as telling me that they know that I’ve been struggling and that they are thinking of me. Sometimes someone has actually reached out with a useable idea, or even come to my house to physically help me work on a problem. I now know that I’ve misjudged many people in my life.

Forgiveness brings about personal progress. When we convince ourselves that we are alone, and that everyone else is against us, we stifle our own progress. None of us can truly be happy alone. We reach our happiest peaks, and our most delicious successes, through and with the cooperation of others.

Surviving hard times makes happy and successful times that much better. Hard times also help us see the way toward success more clearly. But this clarity is only available to us if we are honest about the reasons for our suffering, and if we’re willing to let them go.

That’s why we talk about all this, that’s why we share.

Friday, January 27, 2012

A new way to promote my speaking programs.

I've created a facebook page that will cover all my speaking programs:!/profile.php?id=1365704310

Please visit my new facebook page,
But remember,
I will ALWAYS be updating my blog here, and the posts here have more information and more depth.

I encourage you to discuss the issues brought up here and on facebook,

As always, HAVE FUN!!